Ever eat a little shortening? Don't try it. Raw egg? Bad. Salt and sugar by itself? Yuck. Baking soda? Not good. Chocolate chips? Now that's good. One out of six isn't bad. Somehow when you mix five bad things with one good thing and stir them up together, it tastes so good that you eat half the dough before you make the cookies.
Pastor, that's what God wants to do with your experiences. He wants to take bad, bad, bad, bad, bad, good and turn you into Mrs. Fields! He's a pro at it. God does not want you to waste your experiences. He wants to use them to make you a more effective minister.
There are three ways that God wants to use your experiences to make you a better minister.
1. Use them to minister to others.
Paul tells us in 2 Corinthians 1:6-7 (LB): "We are in deep trouble for bringing you God's comfort and salvation. But in our trouble God has comforted us - and this, too, to help you: to show you from our personal experience how God will tenderly comfort you when you undergo these same sufferings. He will give you the strength to endure."
God comforts us, helps us, and strengthens us when we're experiencing problems, so then we can comfort, help, and strengthen others when they go through the same things. God helps us, so we can help others. God wants to use every experience that you've gone through to help somebody else.
Who can better help somebody going through cancer than somebody who's been through cancer? Who can help somebody dealing with an addiction than somebody who's been through the addiction before? Who can better help parents who had a kid who went off the deep end, than somebody whose son or daughter went off the deep end?
God never wastes a hurt. I've said that a thousand times at Saddleback. It's true for pastors as well. He wants you to use them to minister to other people. What you're most embarrassed about, what you most regret, God wants to use to help others. But, pastor, before that can happen, you've got to be honest about it. If you open up about that pain, it can become you're greatest ministry. You always help people more through your weaknesses than your strengths.
2. Use them to motivate others.
Your experiences can be inspirational to people because you have been through things and been places that they have not. And you can motivate them.
